How to help your teen out of depression

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11.29.2022

The teenage years can be complicated. Teens can deal with feelings of loneliness and the pressures of high school, all while trying to become their own person. This  process of growing up can cause dramatic shifts in your teen’s mood. 

If you’re worried that your teen is feeling more lonely and isolated beyond what can be expected through teen development, they may be suffering from depression. But there are steps you and your teen can take to understand and help them navigate through this difficult time. 

What is teen depression?

Teen depression is a mental disorder characterized by persistent negative moods, including unhappiness, and manifests in a number of somatic and cognitive symptoms, outside of the normal ups and downs of teenage years. 

sad teen

Beyond mood swings, and angst 

If you’re worried your child may be suffering from depression it’s important to know what to look for. Symptoms of teen depression are:

  1. Acting out with defiance or disruptiveness
  2. Easy to anger, or general irritability
  3. Anxiety and social isolation from situations or people
  4. Declining school performance, or refusal to go to class
  5. Fatigue and sleep problems, including staying asleep, or sleeping excessively
  6. Low-self esteem, restlessness or worthlessness
  7. Mood swings or bouts of sadness that seem out of proportion
  8. Frequent health complaints, including stomach aches, loss of appetite, or other pains
  9. Smartphone addiction, specifically social media and internet use
  10. Running away for short or extended periods of time
  11. Drug and alcohol abuse of any kind

It isn’t always easy to identify if your teen is going through depression or the loneliness that sometimes accompanies the teen years. Because depression looks different for every person, it can be hard for even the individual who’s suffering from depression to understand what they’re facing. 

In a survey of high school students in the U.S., it showed that 10% of boys and 22% of girls reported that they had ideated suicide. This is a major cause for alarm. The rise in depression and anxiety in teens is affected by factors like social media and screen time.

depressed teen on laptop

Teen depression is different than adult depression

Understanding signs of depression can help you and your teen work toward feeling better, but it’s important to know the difference between teen depression and adult depression. The symptoms below have been included in the list above, but are more common for young people to experience compared to adults.

  • Extreme moods and irritability. Irritability is typically the predominant mood over sadness in depressed teens. Depressed teens tend to be hostile, get  frustrated easily, and more likely to have angry outbursts.
  • Unexplained pains. Teens suffering from depression complain about physical discomfort and ailments such as headaches or stomach aches. If physical exams by medical professionals don’t reveal a medical cause, these physical issues may be rooted in depression.
  • Sense of worthlessness. Depressed teens can have intense feelings of worthlessness, making them more vulnerable to criticism, rejection, or failure. 
  • Withdrawing from and changing friends. Rather than isolate, as many depressed adults will do, depressed teens will typically keep at least some friendships going. But depressed teens may hang out with friends less, or start hanging out with different groups.

Helping your teen manage depression

If your child is showing any of these symptoms, it’s important to have an open discussion with them to understand what they’re experiencing. If both of you agree they may be suffering from depression, here are a handful of ways you can help them manage their feelings:

  • Talk with their primary care doctor to get their professional opinion on helping your teen
  • Encourage IRL connections, including spending time with family and friends, even when they don’t feel up to it
  • Introduce more physical activities, whether it’s sports or just going for a walk, physical activity releases endorphins that will help their mental state
  • Limit screen time, especially social media use, as social media has been linked to low self-esteem. Safe phones for kids can help with this.
  • Support a regular sleep schedule to restore and improve mental and physical fatigue

Talk with your teen

It’s important that your teen knows they can talk to you about what they’re going through on a day-to-day basis. They won’t always want to talk, but by letting them know your goal is to help them and love them, they’ll be more likely to open up when they’re really struggling.

If your child, teen or someone you know is suffering from depression, there are several online resources available, including at the National Institute of Mental Health and the Center for Disease Control and Prevention.

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